Originally Posted by Debshopeful
Guys not just girls, base things on looks...After the looks fade, what will you have?
This heads into the point I want to make.
Most guys I hear complaining about shallow girls entertain me to some level. When I ask who they're talking about, they usually mention some really hot chick with a vapid personality. At which point I think... wait a second. Who's really guilty of being shallow?
I admit, there's a line for me. If someone doesn't look attractive to me, I won't date them. There's honestly no chance. There has to be a degree of physical attraction for a relationship to work. If there isn't, the entire purpose of the relationship is defeated before it begins. Girls, like it or not, have the same standards we do as guys.
That being said, there needs to be another level to the relationship as well. A deeper, more meaningful level that will last into the time when looks fade and nothing is left but the love and devotion that has been built over time. This is ultimately more valuable, but will not exist without a foundation: like the pretty smile you noticed on the other side of the room that one day.
If you're absolutely honestly tired of shallow girls, date a girl you're not physically attracted to. See how that works out and get back to me.